There can be several reasons behind the silence of kids and sometimes absolutely no reason, that means it can be a game, which the kids have decided to play among themselves. Now let’s talk if there is a real reason then what can it be? First of all, the reason for silence among kids can be personal and also related to school. In person it can be that the whole family left their old place and shifted to a new place and kids have to leave their old school along with their favorite peers. This really breaks a kid’s heart and they stop talking. However, school LMS takes care of such conditions also and school LMS makes it the duty of tutors to look after the mental well-being of kids also. Their parents need to boost up their morale to interact with other kids in school and make new friends. Sometimes being bullied by any bully who never gets caught in the act, students get depressed and start to remain silent always so teachers need to look after any particular student of the class and search whether it is a case of bullying and should take proper action against it to relieve the kids who are scared of bullying. Sometimes it is the tutor who is the reason for the kid’s silence because sometimes some tutors assume kids as their punching bag and they vent out their frustration on them. Being scared, kids stop talking and bear their atrocities silently. Here, parents need to notice changes in the behavior of their kids regularly and should keep talking to their kids so that they can be so friendly that they can tell their parents what’s happening. Sometimes it is the stress of study and the hectic schedule of syllabus which scares the kids and make them believe that they can’t pass this semester and fear of failure makes them silent. Parents need to talk to their kids and boost up their morale in exam times so that kids can earn good marks with a healthy mind.
Sometimes when kids see their parents fighting and quarreling all the time then their heart gets broken seeing their dear ones fighting and this affects their mind badly and they stop talking too. Therefore, parents need to look after their personal affairs and keep it healthy so that kid’s childhood may not get affected and the last one but not the least one if a smiling child all of a sudden start to keep a mum then tutors and parents need to ask the child if any relative or at school somebody is abusing her or him, because in such cases kids are threatened by the culprit to keep a mum and not to mention his/her name. In such cases truth must be detected doesn’t matter, it may require a child counselor’s help and legal action must be taken and the kid must be provided counseling to bring him/her to normal state.
Parents nurture their kids according to their own way and with all those conditions around their kids which they wish to have around them. 99% cases have been studied to have strictness and robust decisions for the kids when they make any mistake or misbehave. Parents usually choose the path of punishment and take punitive actions against the disrespectful behavior of their kids. Usually, it seems correct to some extent also to be a little robust against the children beyond the limit mischief and naughtiness but is it really necessary to be rude always to mend the notorious child? Does it have no alternative? The answer is yes, it is possible to mend the mischievous kids without being robust to them and gentle [parenting is one of those solutions.
There are various benefits of gentle parenting. Gentle parenting always has the effect of the first word in its name. It is found in many studies that gentle parenting decreases levels of anxiety and stress in both- parents and children. It is so, because the trust of parents in the child makes them relax so that the child will listen to them. It is just like modern tools of modern education like the admission management system helps the school administration as students as the admission management system takes care of all matters related to admission of the students. Gentle parenting creates a very high trust level between the kid and parents where if someone else comes and makes a fake complaint against the child then parents know whether their child has done the mischief or not. Similarly, a child also keeps trust in parents that they will never listen to such fake accusations as they believe in him/her. Instead of scolding and holding the kids grounded for their mischief in any social event it is better for the parents to set an example in front of the kids by behaving well themselves. So, it is better for the parents to show & teach their kids about social skills lovingly only.